How to Keep Your Network From Growing Cold

Handling Comms During COVID-19? We've compiled our best resources.

It happens. What is it? It is when you mean to stay in touch with someone but havent. Now six months have passed and you need to email them about a client, an article, a possible business deal. Sound familiar?

Its so much easier if youve had an interaction, any interaction. Providing value in a relationship, even the smallest kind, is important. Staying top of mind is also important.

Yesterday, I dropped a few bars and spit hot fire on Twitter.

Why is that important? It allowed me to reintroduce myself by quoting Hov’ (Jay Z). The tweet itself was not important. But by the end of the day I was featured in Time, Slate, Complex and a dozen other outlets.

How did that happen? I used the second-highest trending hashtag on Twitter at the time and crafted a tweet that fit the audience. Ninety percent of the time, I use a Top 20 hashtag in my posts.

A lot of my content may seem silly but there is a purpose. Im showing my network and potential clients that I know how to create traction and timely content. It also helps me stay visible and creates opportunities to stay in touch.

Its hard to stay in touch without a system. Ill share with you my system and if you like it, great. If you dont, send it right back.

I almost never write anything down. Dont follow my lead on that part. But I do, in the back of my mind, always remember to ask myself two things about every person in my network: (1) How can I help them? (2) How can we work together?

Im constantly focused on being able to create value for my network. It comes down, really, to four C’s.


This is the easiest part. When I have down time, I will quickly view content created by the people in my network. Ill give them a heart, a retweet, leave a comment, something. Im just letting them know that Im aware of what they are doing and Im digging their content. Its genuine. LinkedIn makes it really easy to keep tabs on job changes in your network. Cision has a great tool if you need to find influencer content quickly.

Learn how to effectively engage with others on the top social media platforms. Get our free white paper today!



This is a little harder but you have to do it to provide value. Not every person in your network wants a cheerleader. They want to work with a peer – someone who is creating amazing content at their level. It allows them to trust you more and opens up new opportunities inside your network.

As mentioned above, I make sure my content has the largest audience possible. Ill write specifically about this later this month, if you would like, because I could talk for days about content creation.


I look for small ways to work with people in my network. I contribute to something they are already doing. I provide feedback. Youll be able to sense when someone needs help. I try to be there. In PR, we all have those days where we have to beg, borrow and plead to get something done. I always remember the people that help me during those days.

Connect The Dots


People in my network may need something I cant provide. But I still provide value by connecting them with someone else in my network that can help. I learned early on in my career that you should focus on doing one thing exceptionally well – and leave the rest to someone else. I work under the philosophy that if Im a good connector, if Im creating good value in my network that opportunities will come back my way. Its worked so far.

I hope that helps. Im always happy to answer questions. Its common sense but we all need the reminder periodically. The more active you are with your network, the more action you will see.

Influencer Marketing - How to pitch social influencers

Images: Muhammad Taslim RazinNick SaltmarshHåkan Dahlström (Creative Commons)


About Jeff Barrett

Jeff Barrett is 2015’s Best Business Blogger (Shorty Awards), one of the 50 most influential people on social media (Forbes), the #1 Ad Executive on Twitter (Business Insider) and dances like Drake. Find him on Twitter @BarrettAll.

Recent Posts

Cision Blogs

  • Communications Best Practices

    Get the latest updates on PR, communications and marketing best practices.

  • Cision Product News

    Keep up with everything Cision. Check here for the most current product news.

  • Executive Insights

    Thought leadership and communications strategy for the C-suite written by the C-suite.

  • Media Blog

    A blog for and about the media featuring trends, tips, tools, media moves and more.